You should use an A or D or N polymer (Poropak or Hayesep) that has been thoroughly cleaned. You want only one in a recommendation?
Use Porapak N 80/100 mesh.
There is no loss in using a polymer that separates acetylene if price and performance are the same as Q. The question is not "Will acetylene be present", rather, the statement is "if it is present it will NOT interfere with an accurate measurement of ethylene". Acetylene and ethylene COELUTE on a Q or P polymer column.
The different polymer packings: A, B, C, D, N, P, Q, R, S, T, U, etc indicate that a different copolymer is used with styrene in the polymerization process, and sometimes a different pore chemical is used in manufacturing, thus the different temperature limits, pore volumes, and selectivity of separations.
If you use a single column (no Back Flush or Heart Cut valving) then use Hydrogen carrier, 30cc/min (no fuel will then be needed for your FID if you set your air flows correctly for 30cc/min hydrogen). You can of course, add 10 cc/min fuel and keep your standard air flow. If you do not use a backflush (NOT RECOMMENDED, a good backflush is a chromatographer's best friend), then your isothermal cycle time will be VERY LONG or you may have an unstable baseline if ANYTHING but ethylene is in the air. (hope that a truck does not drive by your lab, or that anyone is wearing aftershave in your lab)
If you use nitrogen carrier you will not see valving upsets in the baseline. If you use hydrogen carrier you will. This may not cause problems or it may.
Happy Research,
Rod