My take on this long discussion which goes nowhere (I am sorry):
1. There is no proof that the peak at 1 minute is the target compound. The compound has no UV activity, any impurity of unknown nature will throw you off the track. You need an alternative technique to confirm the elution. At this point, you are guessing and it is not a good approach. ELSD or LC/MS can give more indications.
2. The compound is not ionizable, it is not amine but rather phoshonamide. It might be ionizable at a very high pH. So ion-pairting will not work. Polar embedded or HILIC will work
3. Methanol will totally mask any UV activity that this compound has (below 195 nm). You need to use VERY pure ACN and any additives you use (buffer, acid, etc.)
4. Take any silica column you have in your drawer and run this with 85% ACN and volatile buffer, try to use CAD or ELSD. More ACN will give you longer retention, pH 7 will give you slightly longer retention than pH 2 (due to more polar surface of silica, not due to ion-exchange between silanols and "amide").
5. For reverse phase, use any C18 column and run it with 100% water and buffer/acid, make sure that column is compatible with 100% water (most of the modern polar embedded columns are)