This is a very interesting discussion, and raises many philosophical issues, as well as chromatographic ones.
First, we seem to be putting the "cart before the horse" when we worry too much about what ICH (or GMP, or GLP, or XYZ) seem to think about it, rather than what the science tells us to do.  While ICH guidelines seem to have been written by people who know what chromatography is, I think most of the information is a "suggestion" not a "requirement."  To paraphrase GMP (in my own non-regulatory way), "set up reasonable rules and then follow them."  If you do something a little different (e.g., using a different calibration method), simply justify and explain it.  I doubt most auditors would understand the details.  They are more often looking for documentation/procedural errors.
Remember, we are fitting a mathematical model to our data, not the other way around.  The best model comes from the best fit (however you choose to define it).  My only concern is that most labs get hung up on r2 only, when that is a very poor indicator of fit quality.  I can show you curves with "three-nines" that generate analytical errors of greater than 50%.  
There are many great suggestions in this thread about how to evaluate data, so don't be afraid to use them.  Just keep good notes!